miarising
07-16-2006, 03:05 PM
To All who consider themselves Transgendered and to those who are supporters...
It's been brought to my attention that I have offended some people of this community and very likely of this board. As I've stated in other posts, there have been a lot of issues to work through this for me, and one of those has been figuring out the sexual aspect of it. I had hoped I had not been offensive in trying to sort this out, but it's been brought to my attention that I have. That issue has been resolved, thankfully, but only within the last month or so thanks to the support and help of people who are also on this board.
I've been honest and open with many of you...and maybe , yes, at times way too honest. For that I apologize.
I found in Eureka Springs a place where I could be Mia...and have done that. Unfortunately, I guess I had not fully processed everything or prepared for wh at feelings I would have and that has affected not only how I have behaved, but how people have interpreted my actions...
I have been accused today of being offensive and giving the TG community a bad name. For those who think that, I apologize and even though I do believe my intent has been somewhat misunderstood, I'm also aware that i have made mistakes...I will not set myself up as any kind of leader, coordinator, or 'instructor' with this being the way some people see me.
Sparky, please remove me as moderator of this forum. I will put those who were interested in doing the panel in touch with Jan or Dawn and perhaps that can be salvaged.
I am not going away...by any means....Although there are apparently people I have offended, there are also those I have not. There are very supportive people here, those who have helped me work through ALL aspects of this through discussion and redirection. and for that I am grateful. I will be at DW...so if I have offended you, I am sorry, and You won't have to worry about it again because thats not what this about for me, never was, but issues sometimes get in the way.
There are very supportive people of all types on this list and in this community. I hoped to be one of them and have I hope for some, but have learned I've been negative in some ways for others. I hope that this allows me the chance to change that, even if it is just by exploring who i am....from the point I am now.
Please do not turn this into a thread..this is simply a statement by me. If you have comments to make, either positive or negative, please make them to me privately... miarising@yahoo.com.
Thank you....and I'll see you around,
always,
mia
It's been brought to my attention that I have offended some people of this community and very likely of this board. As I've stated in other posts, there have been a lot of issues to work through this for me, and one of those has been figuring out the sexual aspect of it. I had hoped I had not been offensive in trying to sort this out, but it's been brought to my attention that I have. That issue has been resolved, thankfully, but only within the last month or so thanks to the support and help of people who are also on this board.
I've been honest and open with many of you...and maybe , yes, at times way too honest. For that I apologize.
I found in Eureka Springs a place where I could be Mia...and have done that. Unfortunately, I guess I had not fully processed everything or prepared for wh at feelings I would have and that has affected not only how I have behaved, but how people have interpreted my actions...
I have been accused today of being offensive and giving the TG community a bad name. For those who think that, I apologize and even though I do believe my intent has been somewhat misunderstood, I'm also aware that i have made mistakes...I will not set myself up as any kind of leader, coordinator, or 'instructor' with this being the way some people see me.
Sparky, please remove me as moderator of this forum. I will put those who were interested in doing the panel in touch with Jan or Dawn and perhaps that can be salvaged.
I am not going away...by any means....Although there are apparently people I have offended, there are also those I have not. There are very supportive people here, those who have helped me work through ALL aspects of this through discussion and redirection. and for that I am grateful. I will be at DW...so if I have offended you, I am sorry, and You won't have to worry about it again because thats not what this about for me, never was, but issues sometimes get in the way.
There are very supportive people of all types on this list and in this community. I hoped to be one of them and have I hope for some, but have learned I've been negative in some ways for others. I hope that this allows me the chance to change that, even if it is just by exploring who i am....from the point I am now.
Please do not turn this into a thread..this is simply a statement by me. If you have comments to make, either positive or negative, please make them to me privately... miarising@yahoo.com.
Thank you....and I'll see you around,
always,
mia