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lamomu
07-22-2006, 10:29 AM
Well kids I must say with in the last few weeks I have become a little Jaded when it comes to supporting my comunity.

As most of you know I bought a new car last month. I went to landers Mclarty In Benton Ville. My salesman was an openly gay man who I had met through Scott. The day I bought the car all went well. Two days later I went to put the car on the Tax role and all hell broke lose. My sales man didnt give me the right paper work. So while at the court house I called him to let him know. All he could do was argue with the clerk through my phone. Finally I told him to get it delt with and call me when he had every thing was corrected. Ten minutes later he called back saying that it was taken care of and that I needed to go back. So I did an hour later I got a call from Scott saying that there was a problem with my loan and that the salesman had called him to relay lay the message to me!!!!!
So after some phone calls to the dealership I found out that he hadnt. Turned in all my info at which time I got upset and told them to have him call me back. Instead of callling me he called Scott to tell him all about how he was going to lose his bonus if I called up there again. 2 weeks later I got a letter of denial from the place that was financing my car. So I called the Dealership again and they taold me not to worry they would get it fixed. A week later I went with Scott to have some work done to the jeep at the same dealership while there we ran into the salesman who didnt say one word to me but instead asked Scott out to Dinner !!!!!!!
Now after 34 days of unreturned phone calls and 1 call to Landers Mclarty corp office my car deal is finally taken care of and Im suppose to take my car in to have it cleaned for my trouble... OH I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER!!
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And last night Scott tells ne that our realitor is Gay!!!!! I told Scott that I didnt think that was a good Idea.... I know thats crappy of me but I think I would much rather have a gay friendly straight person than a gay person to deal with ......... Im put please

FrankeeDee
07-22-2006, 05:00 PM
Taige,
I am so sorry you were treated so badly. But you know, I am not sure that it had anything to do with you or him being gay. (Unless he really is after Scott and trying to make you look bad) :cry: I think it is just the way some car dealers operate. All they care about is making the sale. I have known several people including Tiffany who went thru similar situations while trying to purchase a vehicle here in Broken Arrow. Thank goodness that dealer is no longer in business!
I think it will be a whole different story with your realtor. I think you are right in feeling like gays should help each other and I think most of the time you will find that that is true.
Frankie

angela
07-22-2006, 06:02 PM
:) Sorry you had so much trouble with your car dealer. I believe you and Frankie are right; we should all support each other. I also think that you just had a bad experience and your realtor should be fine. As for asking Scott out, I think that the salesman probably was after him but don't think you have anything to worry about.
Angela and Lisa :D

mmouse
07-22-2006, 11:41 PM
When y'all get here again, Taige, I'll regale you with my "Bubba" truck salesman story........it's one of those that's just so much better in person...... :wink: 8) And you'll feel soooo much better!!! :lol:

Yip
07-24-2006, 10:03 AM
Wow. Sorry to hear about all the trouble. The guy sounds like a real jerk.

In fact.......could it be that he's just a jerk, and not necessarily because he's gay?

I mean, there are (as we all know) jerks of all shapes, sizes, colors and orientations. Some take advantage of "their own kind" because they think they can get away with it. Maybe that's the case with this guy.

Or maybe he's just a jerk to everyone.

Karma will get him!!!!

froggie
07-24-2006, 01:29 PM
Sorry to hear about the trouble you have been having. I dont blame you on the realtor I would be leery too.

Delana

Blue
07-26-2006, 10:09 AM
But the realtor has done nothing wrong? And you think it is not a good idea to deal with him because why? Sorry, I am a gay-friendly straight person and I think it is wrong to hold against an innocent until proven guilty realtor what a jackass car sales man did. Just my opinion...

lamomu
07-26-2006, 11:40 AM
Oh but im not holding the fact that he is gay against the realitor. All Im saying is that perhaps we should research other realitors. Scott wants to deal with him becouse he is Gay....... Just like the sales man at the dealership. What i am saying is that gay doesnt make some one more qualified than a straight person. And after all I want the best service that I can get in this matter.

Blue
07-26-2006, 11:50 AM
You're right...it never hurts to consider all of your options. I just hope you don't end up with a straigt jackass realtor too!!!

Blue

LynneSterling
07-26-2006, 07:39 PM
:? Yeah, Lamomu, it's like the old joke about how you can tell if a car salesman is lying. (his lips are moving) :idea:

Katie
07-26-2006, 10:05 PM
Taige, honey, take it from someone who kows, all car salesmen are pretty stressed out folks, regardless of orientation. They can be liars and good ones at that and they can be jerks..but this is not limited to car slaesmen..all people of all kinds can fit into this category... don't let the green monster take over..move on from the bad experience and see what happens..I just bought a car and had a wondeful experience, but maybe it helped to be in uniform..(he he).

Realtors can be just as tricky as car salesmen, go with reputation and reliability..that is a huge person to work with..
hang in there sweetie and keep above the norm!

love ya, baby - Katie