joneyhits
08-08-2008, 08:29 PM
You have heard, "You are what you eat," but are we what we wear? I try to provide resources to gender variants all over the country. Lately I have been getting, lets say weird, request for information.
One explaine I need to contact her, becasue it was an emergency. I asked her what was up and she asked this, "What type of panties should I buy?" Perplexed, I inquired further. I did not want to judge, becasue I always get commnets from some in the TG community about how I dress, especially when I am riding the bike.
It turned out she just wanted to hear the word, "panties," as it was some sort of turn on. Then I received another email from a person who wantd to know what type of miniskirt she should get for a job interview. I told her one that is below the knee.
Personally, clothing does not sum up me snd has nothing to do with who and what I am. I know I can dress more sexy if I want to feel sexy or wear something more appropriate for the activity. I also know therir are positve and negative consuquences to everything. Like people who dress sexy but can't handle the attention always perplexes me, not that they should have anyone assume they are something they are not by what they wear.
There lies the point, are we prejudged by what we wear or do most people try to actually get to know the wearer? Unfortunately, it tends no to be the later.
Any thoughts?
One explaine I need to contact her, becasue it was an emergency. I asked her what was up and she asked this, "What type of panties should I buy?" Perplexed, I inquired further. I did not want to judge, becasue I always get commnets from some in the TG community about how I dress, especially when I am riding the bike.
It turned out she just wanted to hear the word, "panties," as it was some sort of turn on. Then I received another email from a person who wantd to know what type of miniskirt she should get for a job interview. I told her one that is below the knee.
Personally, clothing does not sum up me snd has nothing to do with who and what I am. I know I can dress more sexy if I want to feel sexy or wear something more appropriate for the activity. I also know therir are positve and negative consuquences to everything. Like people who dress sexy but can't handle the attention always perplexes me, not that they should have anyone assume they are something they are not by what they wear.
There lies the point, are we prejudged by what we wear or do most people try to actually get to know the wearer? Unfortunately, it tends no to be the later.
Any thoughts?